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MOVING IN SILENCE

  • Writer: Vivian Neasman
    Vivian Neasman
  • May 8
  • 4 min read

In a world where we’re constantly connected, it feels like everyone’s sharing every little detail of their lives, whether it’s a new job, a new top you bought off of Tik Tok shop or the latest project you’re working on, you feel like you have to post it to let that person you met in middle school know that you're alive. I have to admit I am 100% guilty of this, but it's hard not to be when we see everyone else living their lives having fun all our phones.But what if the most powerful move you can make is to do it all… quietly? What if moving in silence is the secret to achieving your goals, staying true to yourself, and finding the confidence that comes from within?


Protecting Your Energy

When you talk about your dreams too soon or too often, you invite other people’s opinions, some good, but some not so great. People might doubt you, give unsolicited advice, or project their own fears onto your vision. Let’s be real, no one fully gets your dream like you do. Moving in silence protects your energy. It allows you to focus on what you want, without letting others' doubts or negativity get in the way. 

Once you share your goals, it’s so easy to feel like everyone’s watching and waiting for you to succeed. And now suddenly, it’s not just your dream, it’s something you feel pressured to live up to for others, But by keeping your journey more private, you free yourself from that outside pressure. You get to change directions, make mistakes, and try new things without feeling like the whole world is judging your every move. It’s about doing what’s best for you, not what looks good to others. 

Isn’t there something so fun about surprising people with how far you’ve come? When you move in silence, you let your results speak louder than any announcement ever could. You need to remember you don’t need the constant praise or validation, you’re creating and growing in your own space. And then when you finally share what you’ve been working on, it lands with impact. It’s like, “Oh, you didn’t see that coming? Well, here I am bitch!”


How to Move in Silence Like a Queen

It’s okay to keep your dreams sacred, just between you and your heart. Write them down in a journal or make a vision board that’s just for you. Your goals don’t need to be shared with the world to be valid. They’re special because they belong to you.

Moving in silence means showing up for yourself, even when no one else knows what you’re doing. It’s easy to stay motivated when people are cheering you on, but true strength comes from self discipline. Keep working hard, day by day, knowing that you are the only one who needs to believe in your dream right now.

We live in a time where every achievement seems to need a post or a “big announcement.” But there’s something beautiful about celebrating your successes privately. Give yourself permission to feel proud, to treat yourself, or to simply enjoy the satisfaction of knowing how far you’ve come, without needing external applause.


Why Moving in Silence Feels So Empowering

Moving in silence isn’t about hiding or being secretive, it’s about protecting what’s important to you and allowing yourself the space to grow without distractions. In a world that’s constantly loud, it’s an act of self-love to say, “I’m going to do this on my terms.” You don’t need to perform for anyone else. The only person who truly needs to be proud of your progress is you.

Think about it: when you don’t share every little detail of your journey, you give yourself room to breathe. There’s no need to compare yourself to anyone else, no pressure to meet anyone else’s timeline. You’re free to follow your own path, at your own pace, and trust that your time to shine will come when you decide.


Embrace Your Quiet Strength

Here’s the thing, as girls and women, we’re often taught to seek validation from others, to be liked, and to make sure everyone knows we’re doing well. But guess what? The most important approval is your own. Moving in silence is about trusting yourself, knowing that your journey is yours alone. It’s about building confidence in who you are, without needing anyone else to validate your path.

So, the next time you’re working toward a dream, whether it’s big or small, consider keeping it close to your heart. Let it be yours, free from outside opinions and expectations. Let your results speak for themselves when the time is right. And in the meantime, enjoy the quiet, powerful magic of moving in silence. You’re creating something amazing, and the world will see it when you are ready to share it.


Remember, Wild Hearts is all about living unapologetically and embracing who you are. Sometimes, that means moving boldly… and quietly. Your journey is uniquely yours, and that’s the most beautiful part of all.


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